Got Courage?
It take courage to change your way of thinking. You are inevitable going to come up against opposition from those closest to you – those who claim to have ‘your best interests at heart’. Often your family & friends are going to be the most resistant to you changing.
Why? Becasue it feels uncomfoartable for them to see you thinking & doing things differently. People like & trust what is familiar to them. If they see you changing, they may feel threatened. It challenges the way they think of themselves. Some may even take what you are trying to do personally.
By your wanting to change, your family & friends may feel you are criticising them. That perhaps they are under scrutiny. This is the time when you are going to have to be really tough.
This may be harder than you think. You may have to be ‘alone‘ for a bit while you adjust & become stronger inside. You may feel extreme discomfort & feeling abandoned by those closest to you. Remember these people may feel jealous you are trying to better yourself & try to drag you back down to where you were before.
‘Before’ will feel familiar & safe – & therefore secure. Don’t fall into the comfort trap. You are going to have to decide whether it is worth the backlash you may experience against the rewards of changing what you think. Those who have successfully changed their thoughts & therefore their circumstances have never regretted living their dreams. Will you regret not trying?
I encourage you to have guts. And to attempt fearlessly.
Use EFT to tap on any discomfort as you go through the process of actively changing your thinking.
Enjoy EFT!
