What are Your REAL needs?
This post is lifted from the Changing Your Beliefs Blog. Sometimes we chase what we think we want, when really these are just a cover for our real hidden desires. We can (unknowingly) hide what we really want in the attaintment of certain experiences or external objects.
I’m sure you have heard that when people want more money, it is often more security and freedom they are really chasing.
Thankfully a lot of what we are really want we can satisfy without external objects. Be honest with yourself and identify what you are really striving for (there are often several). Then ask yourself how can you best achieve whatever state really drives you.
This will save you time and effort. You will not be chasing something that leaves you feeling empty and hollow.
Brian Tracey identifies these drives:
| to be admiredto be liked,
to be successful, to be healthy, to have respect, to have recognition, to have social status, to be up-to-date & current, to have power, to hold influence, to be popular, for self expression, for comfort, for understanding, for self actualisation, for companionship, for knowledge, to not miss out for self preservation |
Enjoy EFT!
