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		<title>Sudden Change</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 01:53:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leon Jay</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you prepared for sudden change?  Change can come along and bowl you over if you are emotionally fragile. Or if you are emotionally strong you can ride with the strong current.
It&#8217;s best to be prepared for any scenario. Often big changes hit us when we least expect them to.
Although your natural reaction may be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you prepared for <strong>sudden change</strong>?  Change can come along and bowl you over if you are <strong>emotionally fragile</strong>. Or if you are <strong>emotionally strong</strong> you can ride with the strong current.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s best to <strong>be prepared</strong> for any scenario. Often big changes hit us when we<strong> least expect </strong>them to.</p>
<p>Although your natural reaction may be to <strong>resist change</strong> see if you can ride with it. <strong>Trust</strong> that this change has come along for your highest good and <strong>feel grateful</strong> new things are coming your way.</p>
<p>We all like to feel comfortable. How about <strong>feeling comfortable </strong>no matter what. With this<strong> flexible mindset</strong> nothing can throw you and you can ride with whatever comes your way.</p>
<p>Wishing you every success</p>
<p>Leon Jay
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		<title>What are You Paying Attention to?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 00:40:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leon Jay</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Eft]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Focus]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Paying Attention]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Present Moment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Success]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Unwanted Thoughts]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Whatever you pay attention to the most will show up in your life.  You can tell what you are focusing on by seeing what is in your life right now.
If you are happy with the opportunities and people in your life, this is great.  You are obviously mostly focusing on the good.  If you are [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whatever you pay attention to the <strong>most</strong> will show up in your life.  You can tell what you are focusing on by seeing what is in <strong>your life</strong> right now.</p>
<p>If you are happy with the opportunities and people in your life, this is great.  You are obviously mostly focusing on the good.  If you are <strong>deeply unhappy</strong> with the opportunities, situations and people in your life then it&#8217;s time to <strong>shift your focus</strong>.</p>
<p>This can be hard at first because you will be <strong>largely unaware</strong> you are thinking negatively.  Use EFT to bring your awareness to the<strong> present moment</strong> more often.  Instead of <strong>reacting blindly</strong> to what turns up in your life.</p>
<p>Then slowly thought by thought change what your are feeling. Using EFT to<strong> tap out limiting thoughts</strong> can do wonders for<strong> eradicating whole sections</strong> of unwanted thoughts.</p>
<p>Remember to <strong>replace the old</strong> with the new.  Having rid yourself of limiting thoughts it is now time to <strong>plant something new</strong> in its place.</p>
<p>Always pay attention to your thoughts.  Every time you notice they are <strong>no longer helping you</strong>, replace them with something that does.</p>
<p>Wishing you every success.</p>
<p>Leon jay
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		<title>How to Let Others Be</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 02:11:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leon Jay</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[EFT Information]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Act]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fit]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Keen]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes when we learn new knowledge we are overly keen to share these ideas with others.  They may not be interested and you may feel frustrated you can help them but they are unwilling.
Just because you think you know best it is not your duty to impose your ideas on others.  Each one will learn [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes when we learn new knowledge we are overly keen to share these ideas with others.  They may not be interested and you may<strong> feel frustrated</strong> you can help them but they are unwilling.</p>
<p>Just because you think you know best it is not your duty to<strong> impose your ideas</strong> on others.  Each one will learn all they need to in<strong> their own way</strong>.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s different when someone specifically<strong> asks for help</strong>.  Then you are free to share your ideas.</p>
<p>Use EFT to tap on being <strong>willing to release others</strong> to be exactly who they are and act how they see fit. Let them <strong>experience life their way</strong> and concentrate more on <strong>creating your life</strong> how you want it to be.</p>
<p>Wishing you every success</p>
<p>Leon Jay
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		<title>My Gratitude Today</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 14:42:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leon Jay</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Abundance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Accents]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Clouds]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Coconut Trees]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cracking]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Family Outing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fish]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Gratitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Iced Tea]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Laughter]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lemon Pictures]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lemon Tea]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Local Market]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Market Woman]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Tea Pictures]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I thought I would share all I am grateful for today publicly&#8230;
Thank you for the coconut trees shading our house.
Thank you for enjoying my iced lemon tea while my daughter drew pictures.
Thank you for the sheet lightening cracking across the clouds.
Thank you for a family outing visiting local waterfalls.
Thank you for my Mum.
Thank you for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I thought I would share all I am grateful for today publicly&#8230;</p>
<p>Thank you for the coconut trees shading our house.</p>
<p>Thank you for enjoying my iced lemon tea while my daughter drew pictures.</p>
<p>Thank you for the sheet lightening cracking across the clouds.</p>
<p>Thank you for a family outing visiting local waterfalls.</p>
<p>Thank you for my Mum.</p>
<p>Thank you for the laughter of the children as they enjoyed splashing in the water.</p>
<p>Thank you for my wife.</p>
<p>Thank you for all the accents in the world.</p>
<p>Thank you for all the abundance that surrounds me.</p>
<p>Thank you for the lovely smile the local market woman gave me.</p>
<p>Thank you for the fish in our pond.</p>
<p>Thank you for this day.</p>
<p>Leon Jay
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		<title>How to Release Hidden Anger with EFT</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 01:27:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leon Jay</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Angry Responses]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Hidden Anger]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Anger is one of those emotions that is frowned upon by society. I think it&#8217;s a good thing to feel your anger and then let it go.  It&#8217;s not good to stay in a place of anger as this is not healthy for us.
When you find you evoke angry responses from other people who are [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Anger </strong>is one of those emotions that is <strong>frowned upon</strong> by society. I think it&#8217;s a good thing to feel your anger and then let it go.  It&#8217;s not good to stay in a place of anger as this is <strong>not healthy</strong> for us.</p>
<p>When you find you <strong>evoke angry responses</strong> from other people who are normally placid it&#8217;s time to go within.  Look for the <strong>hidden anger</strong> inside you that is attracting other people to be angry towards you.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s time to be <strong>completely honest</strong> with yourself. Do not be embarrased if what you are feeling angry about is something trivial.  Use EFT to tap away your <strong>root cause</strong> of your anger.  Then send a<strong> silent blessing</strong> to those who were angry towards you for alerting you to the anger inside yourself.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s important you don&#8217;t bottle up your anger. <strong> Feel</strong> it and then <strong>set it free</strong>.</p>
<p>Wishing you every <strong>success</strong></p>
<p>Leon Jay
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		<title>How to Think Your Body Back to a State of &#8220;Perfect Health&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 04:57:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leon Jay</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Back Health]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Heatlh]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[The reality is if you have bad health you have got there through thinking unhealthy thoughts. It&#8217;s just as easy to think healthy thoughts as unhealthy thoughts&#8230; therefore you have the power to think yourself back to perfect health.
This is our natural state. Just because 90% of the world are not in perfect heatlh doesn&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The reality is if you have <strong>bad health</strong> you have got there through <strong>thinking unhealthy thoughts</strong>. It&#8217;s just as easy to think healthy thoughts as unhealthy thoughts&#8230; therefore you have the <strong>power</strong> to think yourself back to perfect health.</p>
<p>This is our <strong>natural state.</strong> Just because 90% of the world are not in perfect heatlh doesn&#8217;t mean this should be accepted as the norm.</p>
<p><strong>Change</strong> is our ever present reality. Moment to moment we <strong>create new realiteis</strong>. You can be in &#8220;terminal&#8221; health one moment and in &#8220;perfect&#8221; health the next.</p>
<p>Turn your attention to what you are <strong>feeling</strong>?  Where is your <strong>focus</strong>?  What is the vibration of your thoughts?</p>
<p>Your body is <strong>extrememly responsive</strong>. It will respond and change itself according to the information you personally feed it.  How you dominantly feel will <strong>determine your health</strong>.  Whether it is dull or vibrant.  It&#8217;s up to you.</p>
<p>Take <strong>responsiblity</strong> and re-create your health.  You have the power to!</p>
<p>Wishing you every success</p>
<p>Leon Jay
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		<title>Allowing Someone to Be Who They Are</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 02:07:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leon Jay</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Conceptions]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think if we all quietened down our judgement and dropped our expectations we would all enjoy more harmonious relationships.
Instead of expecting people to be a certain way, what happens if we expect nothing and allow everyone to be who they are.
This may seem impossible to do.  But I&#8217;m sure a lot more respect and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think if we all quietened down our <strong>judgement</strong> and dropped our expectations we would all enjoy <strong>more harmonious relationships</strong>.</p>
<p>Instead of expecting people to be a certain way, what happens if we <strong>expect nothing</strong> and allow everyone to be who they are.</p>
<p>This may seem impossible to do.  But I&#8217;m sure a lot more <strong>respect and love </strong>would come out of it. We can all only do the best we can.</p>
<p>And if we all start exactly where we are, we can only move forward. Use EFT to tap on any judgements and pre-conceptions you have about how people &#8220;ought to be&#8221;.  And work on <strong>accepting people</strong> for who they are.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not to say people can&#8217;t change or that by <strong>accepting someone</strong> for who they are &#8211; that you agree with them.</p>
<p>You can accept someone and <strong>not agree </strong>with them.  That&#8217;s perfectly fine.</p>
<p>Wishing you every success</p>
<p><strong>Leon Jay</strong>
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		<title>How to Reach Your Goals (the happy way)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 02:15:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leon Jay</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes we have to do things we would rather not do. It&#8217;s very necessary to view these things as being vital steps that will help you achieve your goal.
It is NOT OK if you are largely doing things you really don&#8217;t enjoy &#8211; most of the time.
When you feel unhappy doing things it will take [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes we have to do things we would rather not do. It&#8217;s very necessary to view these things as being<strong> vital steps </strong>that will help you <strong>achieve your goal</strong>.</p>
<p>It is NOT OK if you are largely doing things you really <strong>don&#8217;t enjoy</strong> &#8211; most of the time.</p>
<p>When you feel unhappy doing things it will<strong> take longer </strong>to where you want to go.  Remember there are many routes to get to the <strong>same goal</strong>.</p>
<p>So it&#8217;s worth finding a path you enjoy.  It doesn&#8217;t matter if the way you choose is not the <strong>accepted norm</strong>. Doing what works is the most important thing.</p>
<p>Often when you look for a short-cut or the easy way &#8211; this is not always the best in the long run. Or you could find it may be easy short-term but the consequences down the way are <strong>more headache </strong>than they are worth.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s up to you. I wish you <strong>happiness </strong>on your way.</p>
<p><strong>Leon Jay</strong>
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		<title>Set Yourself Free</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 02:20:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leon Jay</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Set Yourself FREE]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s time to stop looking for everything you want as being outside yourself. And go within&#8230;
Let other&#8217;s be who they are -without placing your judgement on them.
Feeling wealthy has little to do with how much money is in your bank account.
And no special &#8220;mile-stones&#8221; have to be reached in order for you to be happy.
It&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s time to stop looking for everything you want as being outside yourself. And <strong>go within</strong>&#8230;</p>
<p>Let other&#8217;s be who they are -without placing <strong>your judgement</strong> on them.</p>
<p><strong>Feeling wealthy</strong> has little to do with how much money is in your bank account.</p>
<p>And no special &#8220;mile-stones&#8221; have to be reached in order for you to be happy.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a<strong> limiting thought</strong> to believe your life can only be good or better if something external is achieved. When you subscribe to this type of thinking you give away <strong>your power</strong> and control to other people and are at the whim of outside circumstances.</p>
<p>Use the gift of EFT to tap away all limiting beliefs. Find the <strong>root cause</strong> and knock that down.  Then you will know and come to live life every day knowing that everything you want is inside yourself.</p>
<p>And that you have got everything you need already.</p>
<p>Wishing you every success,</p>
<p><strong>Leon Jay</strong>
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		<title>The Way of the Warrior</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 02:04:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Leon Jay</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a beautiful extract taken from John Cali which I have left exactly as it appears in his transcription&#8230;
The Way of the Warrior is simple. However, as you have often heard me say, it may be simple but it&#8217;s not always easy. Today I would like to give you a few of my simple [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-930" title="the-way-of-the-warrior" src="http://www.eft-therapy.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/the-way-of-the-warrior.jpg" alt="the-way-of-the-warrior" width="244" height="280" />This is a beautiful extract taken from <a href="http://www.greatwesternpublishing.org/wayofthewarrior.html">John Cali</a> which I have left exactly as it appears in his transcription&#8230;</p>
<p>The Way of the Warrior is simple. However, as you have often heard me say, it may be simple but it&#8217;s not always easy. Today I would like to give you a few of my simple guidelines or &#8220;rules of the road,&#8221; if you will.</p>
<p>And that road is the Way of the Warrior.</p>
<p>The Warrior always speaks her truth &#8211; no matter what the circumstances.</p>
<p>The Warrior is totally detached from what others think and say about her. (This is absolutely necessary if she&#8217;s going to observe the first rule above.)</p>
<p>The Warrior always does her best to see the divinity in all that is. In this way, she shall never have any desire to own, control, manipulate, misuse or abuse any of the Great Spirit&#8217;s creatures.</p>
<p>The Warrior always follows the highest path as dictated by the highest authority in the Universe &#8211; herself.</p>
<p>The Warrior totally trusts in &#8211; and surrenders to &#8211; the flow of her life. She knows all is as it should be. Therefore, she must always completely trust in &#8211; and surrender to &#8211; her Higher Self, her Soul, the Great Spirit.</p>
<p>The Warrior knows all Love, all Wisdom, all Power lie within her &#8211; within her heart, her mind, her body, her Soul. There is nothing to seek, nothing to find, nowhere to go &#8211; except WITHIN.</p>
<p>The Warrior knows with absolute certainty she has never make a mistake &#8211; she can never make a mistake. All of her life is simply a lesson in this classroom called Planet Earth. She learns as she goes. All is as it should be.</p>
<p>The Warrior never takes life on Planet Earth too seriously. It&#8217;s all a game, after all &#8211; a game in the classroom of Planet Earth. And games should be fun. Enjoy the game &#8211; it won&#8217;t last forever!</p>
<p>The Warrior&#8217;s heart is always full &#8211; and always grateful. She never knows lack or emptiness &#8211; except, that is, when she creates those illusions by getting too infatuated with the Great Illusion &#8211; the human experience.</p>
<p>The Warrior knows the Great Illusion creates some highly interesting challenges &#8211; for example, the challenge to rise above the Great Illusion.</p>
<p>As she rises above the Great Illusion, the Warrior knows this experience is as it should be &#8211; she has chosen it. And in this choosing, she is remembering her way back to the Light &#8211; back to her Home. That was the only reason for choosing the Great Illusion in the first place.</p>
<p>The Warrior knows all her brothers and sisters on Planet Earth have the same destination she does &#8211; HOME. But each may take a different path. And the Warrior knows that&#8217;s okay! All will get Home &#8211; no matter what path they take.</p>
<p>It cannot be otherwise &#8211; for ALL paths lead HOME.</p>
<p>The Warrior knows the way of the wind. She loves the wind, but she knows she cannot capture it &#8211; she cannot own it. She can love it, luxuriate in its presence, glory in its energy.</p>
<p>But if she tries to capture it, it becomes something other than what it truly is &#8211; it becomes still and stagnant air. She can never possess it completely &#8211; unless she refuses to ever own it &#8211; unless she refuses to ever have sovereignty over it.</p>
<p>She can possess it only by letting it be free &#8211; by letting it be what it is.</p>
<p>It cannot be otherwise. The Way of the Warrior is the Way of the Wind.</p>
<p>Enjoy, Leon Jay
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